The Power of Compassionate Communication in Dementia Care

Communicating with a loved one who has dementia can be a challenge, especially as memory loss and language difficulties progress. Asking the right questions can help stimulate aging adults’ cognitive function, encourage meaningful conversations, and provide insights into their well-being. Timely and thoughtful questions lead to conversations that strengthen relationships between those with dementia and their caregivers.

Memory Questions to Ask a Loved One with Dementia

Engaging in conversation with someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s provides mental stimulation that can keep them alert. Setting is key for these types of conversations, and a quiet, familiar space to ask questions is ideal.

Here are some helpful memory questions to ask a loved one with dementia:

• What do you enjoy doing most during the day?

• What are your favorite smells?

• What kind of animals do you like most?

• Do you prefer mountains or beaches?

• Do you prefer fall, winter, spring, or summer?

• What is your favorite type of music?

• If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

These questions can spark conversations and help keep loved ones with dementia engaged and connected with their families, surroundings, and day-to-day lives.

Questions to Ask Health Care Workers

If you’re seeking professional support, it’s essential to know the right questions to ask providers to ensure the best fit and care for your loved one:

• What experience do you have with helping those with dementia?

• What do you do if someone in your care experiences nighttime confusion?

• How do you handle difficult behaviors or agitation?

• What strategies do you use to keep those with dementia engaged?

• How do you communicate with families about changes in health?

The Power of Compassionate Communication in Dementia Care

Dementia care requires patience, empathy, along with consistent and open communication. Asking thoughtful questions can help keep loved ones with dementia or Alzheimer’s mentally stimulated and help maintain a sense of connection with their community.

At Mitchell Hollingsworth, we understand that when a loved one receives a dementia diagnosis, it can feel daunting, and families seek guidance and support. While there is no single answer, building a strong network of compassionate caregivers, open channels of communication, and effective practices can profoundly impact their loved one’s quality of life.

Source: The Power of Compassionate Communication in Dementia Care - Institute on Aging